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Many parents avoid video games with kids: Oh Yeah?

I've seen a lot of posts around here about parents playing games with their kids so be careful of generalizations with data.   The random poll of 2,000 plus people probably aren't the people you should be talking to. 

So how bout it AGE'rs?  Do you play video games with your kids?

I can't wait until my daughter can handle a controller and thankfully she won't have to deal with the original Xbox behemoth! 

WASHINGTON - Jesse Lackman says his son spends a dozen hours a week waging medieval combat across the dreary dreamscapes of computer games. Just don't expect to find Lackman sitting beside him battling ogres and dragons.

"It's just such a waste of time," said Lackman, 47, a power plant operator from Center, N.D. "I tell him, 'Do something that has some lasting value.'"

Lackman's avoidance of the digital diversions that captivate his 15-year-old son, Tyrus, is shared by many parents. More than four in 10, or 43 percent, of those whose young children play video or computer games never play along with them, according to an Associated Press-AOL Games poll released Monday.

While experts debate whether electronic gaming is bad news or a blessing for children and their families, many parents are voicing their preference by never — or seldom — joining their kids when it's time to slay cyber scoundrels.

Besides those who simply don't play the games with their children, another 30 percent say they spend less than an hour a week doing so. All told, about three in four parents of young gamers never or hardly ever touch the stuff.

"I don't think it's good for them, the violence, the obsession," said Karen Kimball, 55, of Hale, Minn., another nonplayer who estimates her 17-year-old son plays 25 hours weekly. "No longer is it, 'Let's go out and throw a football.'"

Those who game with their children are likelier to be younger, single and part-time workers than those who don't, the poll showed.

Among them is stay-at-home dad Marvin Paup, 33, of Golden Valley, Ariz., who says he plays 30 hours a week with his son and dozens more on his own.

Their current favorite is "Halo 3," a shooter game played online by thousands of players at a time. His state-of-the-art equipment includes an Xbox 360 console, surround-sound turned up "really, really loud" and a 65-inch wide-screen television, he said.

"That game has bonded me with him," he said of his 10-year-old son Allen. "It's like a whole new reality with me and him."

Overall, the survey highlighted how pervasive — yet age-related — interest in electronic gaming is today.

According to the poll, in which only adults were questioned, 81 percent of children age four to 17 play computer or video games at least occasionally, compared with 38 percent of adults. Typically, both adult and child gamers play two hours weekly — half play more and half less — including about three in 10 who play five hours or more each week.

Reflecting the technology's relatively recent introduction, 59 percent of those age 18 to 29 play at least sometimes, double the rate for people age 50 to 64. There is little difference among users by race or region, with middle-income earners likeliest to indulge.

"It's something to take your mind off business and everything else," said Todd Williams, 33, a salesman from Lexington, Ky., who estimates he plays 10 hours weekly, especially interactive adventure games. "I guess it's the time, which is seldom, that I spend alone."

Sales of games and gaming hardware are rising steadily, said David Riley, marketing director of the NPD Group, a market research firm. He estimates that video and computer game sales this year will total $19 billion in the U.S., up from $13.5 billion last year.

Even so — and despite the publicity given to newer game consoles like the Nintendo Wii, Sony's PlayStation 3 and Microsoft's Xbox 360 — the proportion of adults saying they play electronic games was virtually unchanged from April 2006, when an AP-AOL poll asked the same question.

Casual games like card or board games were the favorite of 31 percent of gamers, about twice the number who like action games, the next most popular alternative. About half of women cited casual games as their favorites, triple the number of men who did so, while twice as many males than females preferred action games.

Adventure, strategy and sports games were also among the most popular.

The poll also found that among gamers:

_44 percent said they play over the Internet;

_26 percent said they spent nothing on the pastime last year, another 46 percent spent up to $200 and 12 percent spent $500 or more, with men usually the bigger spenders;

_Price is the chief factor for people purchasing a gaming console, followed by the availability of games.

The poll involved telephone interviews with 2,016 adults conducted Oct. 9-11 and 16-18, and had a margin of sampling error of plus or minus 2.2 percentage points. Included were 770 people who said they play computer or video games, for whom the margin of sampling error was plus or minus 3.5 points.

Thanks Yahoo News 

 

Published Nov 12 2007, 03:44 PM by cosmo
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ThirdMartini said:

I'm with you cosmo, can't wait till my 'lill critter to be is old enough to pown some newbs with me ;)

November 12, 2007 5:16 PM
 

Sharky said:

I found this quote funny ...

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"I don't think it's good for them, the violence, the obsession," said Karen Kimball, 55, of Hale, Minn., another nonplayer who estimates her 17-year-old son plays 25 hours weekly. "No longer is it, 'Let's go out and throw a football.'"

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I don't know about you guys, but if I was in the house for more than 30 minute, my mom or dad would have me doing chores or tell me to get the hell outside. Plus, they didn't allow me to have a TV in my room or lock my door, so there was no reason for me to stay in my room.

November 12, 2007 5:39 PM
 

cosmo said:

Hopefully AJ won't be around to tea-bag them.

November 12, 2007 5:41 PM
 

Nitereaver said:

My daughter is already a pc game freak at age 4. The 360 controller is a little to much for her to handle but we play the V-smile together.

November 12, 2007 5:42 PM
 

rainersnow said:

I play video games with both my son (9) and daughter (6).Instead of it being an anti-social solo activity, we turn it into positive time together.  And we still find time to play catch and build sand castles.

November 12, 2007 6:15 PM
 

jigsawhc said:

Once my son (who is almost 1) is a little older we'll be playing video games together for sure.  But, he will not be getting a tv or computer in his room and the games will be age appropriate.  Plus, it will not be 25 hours a week while he lives in my house.  If he has time to play games he can help me get stuff down around the house.

November 12, 2007 6:56 PM
 

BoomerBrian said:

Video games is a great indoor activity that allows you to bond with your kids. It is also a great bargaining tool as well. You don't get to play until your room is clean, etc... Moderation is the key just as it is to most things in life.

What would be interesting it to see how many of those parents park their butts in front of the TV every night and watch their shows while ignoring their kids totally.

November 12, 2007 7:48 PM
 

RipSword said:

All I can say is that I just watched my son (who's 12) become a 5 STAR GENERAL in COD4.  And to tell the truth, I was as proud as if he scored the winning touchdown in the homecoming game.

I try to watch him play as much as possible, and I use it as a tool to teach some values as well.

November 12, 2007 9:12 PM
 

RipSword said:

BTW, if you don't believe my son is a 5 star I'll have him join us sometime on game nite.

November 12, 2007 9:13 PM
 

Wokisan said:

I have 2 girls, one is 6 and the other is almost 9. They definitely 'have my blood' in them and love video games and we do play together. The younger one is much more a 'hardcore' gamer, she wants to play everything while the older one is more of a "Animal Crossing' type player. She'd rather watch Disney Channel or go to Disney.com.

The youngest sneaks down when I'm playing games that I don't like for them to be around when I play......Halo, COD, Vegas, Half-Life, etc. She then does her best to hang around while the guys and I play..........

November 12, 2007 9:55 PM
 

Soldan said:

My 2.5 yr nephew learned about sharing when playing wii sports with his dad and me (we only have 2 controllers). We played a month later with a huge group, the other kids had fits when their turn was up but not my nephew. Odd thing is those kids don't have video games at home. Being an adult and being involved in a child's life is not hard, neither is limiting your / their playing time.  Glad I never grew up, my time is unlimited and I am always player 1! :)

November 12, 2007 11:59 PM
 

grumpyshrapnel said:

My son is 6 and we play games together. He also watches me play and loves it when I get my ass kicked.

November 13, 2007 6:32 AM
 

treek22 said:

My 5yo son and I play together, both 360 and Wii and ....my 21-month old likes to hold the controller and push the buttons....we play outdoors too...does it matter the activity?.....spending time together period is what matters most.

November 13, 2007 8:37 AM
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